I'm a girl and I just wanted to ask what a handjob feels like for a boy? You described what it feels like to give yourself that self satisfaction, but I wonder what it feels like when someone else is giving that feeling? I have been dating for a while now and I feel like I should give my boyfriend that feeling.. I wonder if he would appreciate that? I'm just asking because your earlier description of masturbation seemed like such a perfect feeling for men. He talks about his penis a lot.
a) He talks about his penis a lot
I’d say that this is normal. Males have a highly developed neurological path between the penis and the pleasure nuclei in their brain. In fact one could almost say that there is a direct connection between the penis and these nuclei (not really, but functionally speaking we may consider it as such). This explains why the penis is the pre-eminent arousal tool for males : stimulation of the erect penis is almost like direct stimulation of the pleasure centres of the brain. No other body parts is as intimately linked. This explains why your friend gives so much importance to his penis during sex play : exposing his penis to physical stimulation is virtually indistinguishable to exposing his brain to sexual pleasure !
It doesn’t take long for a man to establish a link between intense pleasure and penis stimulation. This is why men consider their penis to be such an important part of their body : no other part can give them such an intense, reliable and exquisite pleasure.
Since women don’t have such a powerful area to act on when they experience sexual stimulation, women are often surprised if not annoyed by the men’s focus on their penis. Would they have an organ that gave them direct access to sexual pleasure, however, they’d focus on it too !
b) I wonder if he would appreciate hand jobs ?
If done right he will, definitively. There is no reason why a man would dismiss any attempt at pleasure !
c) What does a hand job feel like ?
(In a relationship setting) the hand job is a demonstration that someone else cares for you, and an arousing someone to boot ! Seeing a beautiful (boy or girl) holding your sex, keeping an eye on your reaction, adapting his stroking to increase your pleasure, being happy to see you moan and writhe as pleasure increases is a wonderful thing. One cannot help but feel respected, cared for.
I’d say that it goes like this for me…
- As I feel my friend laying his hands down on my cock, I progressively become aware of my erection.
- His eyes meet mine : I see carnal passion in them, I see eagerness, enthusiasm. I understand he wants my pleasure.
- As I see his greedy eyes all over my penis, I feel desired and loved.
- He soon begins to caress my cock, and as he moves his hands up and down my shaft, I become conscious of my size and I’m happy.
- A little later, as he wraps his hands around my dick, I feel my penis’ girth and it feels great.
- As his hand begin sliding up and down my penis, I feel my dick’s skin sliding up and down over the stiff and lumpy core of my shaft. (Since I am uncut, my dick’s skin has leeway : it is my cock’s skin that glides on my penis, not his hand’s skin.)
- I can see that he watches my every move, my every reactions : I know he wants to see what part of my cock is the soft spot today.
- I feel cared for, I feel happy, and a surge in my cock proves it to him.
- This increase in my erection’s hardness is met with a wicked expression in his face. His sparkling eyes makes it clear that he is getting what he wants.
- As I look down on him, as I see his beautifully handsome face, as I see his manly hands all over my cock and caressing my abs, I feel a pang of desire in my abs.
- But he is looking at me right now, he’s softly asking me how I feel : my legs become weak.
- A soothing feeling of serenity invades my mind.
- My cock feels his warm hand rubbing up and down my shaft, sliding my cock’s skin up and and down my hot, stiff and lumpy shaft core.
- I feel in harmony as his hand encases my cock perfectly.
- I perceive my cock’s stiffness through his hand and I like it.
- I feel my cock’s girth in his hand and I enjoy it.
- I feel my balls rubbing against the inside of my thighs each time his hands glide along my shaft.
- I feel his muscular arms against my thighs as he works on my cock.
- At this point, my body may appear calm on the outside, but inside I feel giddy.
- A tingling sensation takes shape in my balls and at the base of my shaft.
- A wave of relaxation travels from my cock throughout my body : my muscles seem to loosen up.
- My heart starts beating faster.
- My mind becomes hazy as pleasure builds up and invades every nooks and crannies of my brain. Pleasure takes centre stage.
- With the increasing pleasure, my breathing becomes more conspicuous, and I begin to sigh progressively louder.
- A feeling of tension builds up at the base of my shaft, ever so slight at first, it definitely increases over time.
- This feeling of tension and a buzz building up in my lower shaft causes my attention to be focused on my penis. I cannot help but notice the feeling in the core of my shaft as he keeps going up and down. I cannot help but notice how big my cock now feels.
- I am grateful of what he is doing to my dick. I feel relaxed. I feel great. I feel manly. I feel alive. I am happy.
- The tension at the base of my shaft invades my balls : more and more, they feel tight and somehow swollen.
- I’m not sure these pressure and feelings of tightness would be fun on their own, but considering the state my head is now, it feels marvellous !
- A warm sensation invades my abdomen.
- He is watching my reactions, and at this point my facial expressions, my moans and my groans are making it clear that he’s got it right !
- The initial muscle relaxation I had initially felt evolves over time to a tension buildup throughout my body as my pleasure continues to increase.
- It feels as if each successive caress on my dick is superior to the previous one : with each successive stroke, I feel better, even better, so much better…
- I don’t want this to stop, and I become anxious that he might. As a safeguard, I begin to rock my hips… slightly at first, but with increasing amplitude over time.
- The way he is looking at me throws me upside down. I see his hands expertly working on my cock and I just want to hug him.
- I suddenly realize that I’m fucking his hands with all my might and I’m moaning like a crazy fool !
- Fucking his fist helps shifting my sexual tension : it feels as if it pumps the pleasure away from my penis, but my cock’s pleasure continues to overflow in my crotch anyway.
- My sighs are more chaotic and even spastic now.
- I’m looking at him and I’m in love : I just want to kiss him all over !
- He looks at me and he seems to understand. Maybe I’ve said it out loud ? I don’t know. He suddenly stops and he kisses me passionately on the lips. It feels good, liberating, but at the same time, I’d kill him right now : why did he stop masturbating me ? It was so good !
- This interlude helps me pull myself together. I am as aroused as ever, but I feel the point of no-return drift away. I suddenly understand why he did this and I love him even more. I hold his head in my hands and I kiss him passionately.
- As he returns to my cock, I see him grab the bottle of lube. He pours some lube in his hands, but he just keeps looking at me.
- He grabs the base of my shaft with one hand and he begins to push his other lubed fist around my cock, from the tip of my cocks head down to the base of my shaft.
- The pleasure is intense : I can’t help but close my eyes, tilt my head backwards and moan daftly.
- I am soon back on the top of the world as his hands are sliding up and down my shaft again.
- Pleasure is now intense and rewarding and I realize after a while that his stroking pattern and speed are constantly changing : he is edging me.
- My cock is now at his hardest : the pressure inside my cock is incredible and I can feel this in my lower abs too.
- It goes without saying that I’ve resumed my hand fucking too : I cant help it, it’s just too good !
- Sexual pleasure is about to take over what’s left of me as pressure increases both at the base of my cock and in my balls : I am soon to reach the point of no-return ! I tell him, but he doesn’t mind : he keeps stroking my cock !
- I feel helpless : I’d like him to stop, but I’m not in control. And I’m too buzzed to resist. I look at him with pleading eyes, moaning and hoping he’ll retreat, but my attempt is vain.
- I feel the point of no-return getting nearer. Ah ? Ah ! Aaah !
- The point of no-return is reached and my pleasure suddenly peaks. Pressure at the base of my cock and in my balls reaches an almost painful degree that inevitably elicits a strong spastic moan, soon followed by a strong contraction of my abs : ejaculation has become inevitable. Everything after this happens very (too ?) fast…
- For a few seconds after this, I am not even able to breathe. All my muscles are tensed as my cock is about to explode. I have lost virtually all control but I couldn’t care less anymore : the tension deep in my groin, the pressure in my balls cause my mind to focus on a single thought… Yes, I want to cum ! No, I can’t resist anymore ! Yes, I welcome this marvel that is bestowed on me !
- As this is happening in my mind, I am overcome with a final spike of pleasure and my muscles thrust my penis forward. As I remain flexed spastically like this, I utter a strong whining moan. I am floored by pleasure as a feeling of fulfillment dominates my mind.
- My friend suddenly stops stroking my cock and this is a good thing as my cock’s head has become exquisitely sensitive. Instead, he’s holding my shaft strongly and steadily.
- Almost simultaneously, robust contractions begin at my cock’s base : oh yes, finally : ejaculation ! I can feel the strong pulsations joggling my hard cock in his fist. The underside of my penis throbs as each successive blast of semen gets spewed out. A feeling of relief and satisfaction accompanies each successive cum shot as the pressure lessens deep inside me. Right now, I can’t think. I am here and now : I am ejaculating, I am ejaculation.
- As all this is happening too quickly, and as my mind is still overwhelmed and my body is still transfixed by pleasure, I feel the warm gush then the blobs of semen land helter-skelter on my abs.
- As the contractions subside, I slowly recover my senses. My muscles feel a little sore, limp, and I feel groggy : I could easily fall asleep. The tension deep inside my groin is gone, and a feeling of deep satisfaction lingers in me.
- As I look gratefully at my friend, I realize that one of my cum shot hit is face. Maybe he did it on purpose, but I’m proud of it.
- I kiss and hug my friend, appreciatively, and as my wet penis slowly softens back to its resting state, drops of semen still leaking from the tip, as my heartbeat slows down and my breathing returns to normal, I drowse away in his arms. Thankful, satisfied, happy. Feeling loved.
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