Of course you masturbate. Almost every man masturbates after all. Granted, not every man : there are some who don’t, for many reasons, most of which being legitimate. But the fact that you are reading that blog increases the probability that you masturbate from high to extremely high.
This being said, the fact that you are masturbating doesn’t necessarily mean that you live well with the fact of being a masturbator. Where are you on the following masturbation acceptance scale ?
I do not include exhibitionist attitudes in this scale, because exhibitionism is not a requirement. It is not even a sign of acceptance, as public masturbation is often done to disturb others. Public masturbation, by an exhibitionist, reveals that the exhibitionist himself thinks that masturbation is shocking. In other words, the publicly masturbating exhibitionist is likely a 1, 2 or 3 on this scale : he is willingly doing something shameful either because he loves to disturb or because he wants to punish himself.
This is a work in progress scale. I don’t consider it to be definitive, not at all. Don’t hesitate to comment.
In the meantime, where are you on this scale ?
Some call this handsfree ejaculation. I prefer to call this abandoned ejaculation because the guy does use his hand to bring himself to the brink of orgasm (0:11), but then leaves his penis is left to its own devices during ejaculation (0:13)…
Or at least the first part of it. As you can see, the guy ends up giving his cock a few massaging strokes towards the end (0:23). Indeed, most guy won’t find enjoyable a complete ejaculation sequence without some form of stroking. Truly abandoned ejaculation (with no contact until complete detumescence) are a masochistic experience in frustration and sexual dissatisfaction.
Nevertheless, abandoned ejaculations are an interesting sight and a fabulous display of the bulbocavernosus contractions, the cause of the penis throbs during ejaculation.
Masturbating starts off promising, just gets better, and finishes with a fabulous climactic release. But then we have to deal with the messy reality of disposing of a load of cum.
Before talking about disposal, let’s talk briefly about ejaculation. You should never attempt to block the expulsion of your semen. This stuff has to get out. At any rate, letting yourself cum without restraint will also greatly increase your post-orgasmic satisfaction.
Here are possible ways to dispose of your ejaculatory aftermath. From the solid, time-tested methods to the more kinky possibilities…
Once again, whatever you do, you must first let yourself cum without restraint. Messiness and sex go hand in hand ! The messier, the merrier. 😉
[Adapted from Let’s Masturbate]