How long does it take to goon ?
To reach a gooning state, you have to focus on your dick and the feelings that emanate from it. It is practically impossible to goon while watching porn or if you are with someone else, because in those cases, you will not be focussing on your individual sensations, but on your environment instead. Gooning can be seen as a meditative experience of sort. Like meditation, gooning requires that you focus your thought on a single event (your pleasure), on a single area (your cock). If you don’t focus, you won’t be able to goon out.
Gooning requires that you let your emotional self free. If you keep your emotions under strict control, you won’t be able to goon. To goon, you have to be able to abandon yourself. You have to accept that your body will be the puppet of your emotional self, instead of your cerebral self. This is probably the most difficult part. Indeed, in most cultures, men are expected to be stoic, phlegmatic, unemotional (you know : “real men don’t cry”, and those sort of stupid messages). And you have very likely trained yourself to act as such since your childhood. Gooning is a culture shock. Gooning draws attention to your manliness, your strong erection and the virility of your sexual pleasure. But at the same time gooning requires that you allow yourself feel your emotions, and even more difficult, to express them for all the world to see ! You are required to behave in a somewhat unmanly way while feeling your manliness in your hand… As I said : a culture shock ! You won’t be able to goon until you give in and accept to be emotional.
Gooning requires that you let go of your self-control. We all have learned to behave in a socially acceptable manner. Our body stance, our way of moving around, our facial expressions are all socialized. While this is generally perfectly adequate (after all, we need some rules to function as a group), it becomes a road block to your gooning ability. The word gooning hints at this fact already : you don’t only need to be in touch with your emotions, but you need to let your body express them freely, without restraint, without regulation, without your usual superintendence. You have to accept that, were you to be seen gooning, you’d definitely appear as goofy, foolish and stupid to this outsider. To goon, you have to let your body become the puppet of your emotions, forswearing social conventions, putting aside the usual public image of yourself. You have to accept to look like a freaking idiot, were you to be seen gooning !
Once this is all understood, and once you have mastered the art of edging, then you are ready to experience gooning. Beginners will usually have to edge a lot longer than seasoned gooners to attain the gooning state. How long it will take will thus vary a lot. But with experience and with your progressively attained ability to free your body and mind from the social harnesses of acceptability and appropriateness, you’ll be able to goon earlier and more easily.
For beginners, it is usually important to break the mold by going all out and attempt to overplay your emotions. Your cerebral self is going to judge your emotional self severely, and you emotional self will be quick to shy away. Learn to be noisy, moan, groan and broadcast your pleasure. Tell yourself (out loud) what you are doing and how you feel. At first you’ll certainly blush : that’s perfect ! It means that you are working on your inner blocks. Let your body move : forget your bed sheets, forget your pillow, forget there is a head-end of the bed and let your arms, your legs, your head shift and twitch on the spur of the moment. Focus on your feelings, become fully aware of your cock’s stiffness and shape and let go of the rest. Why care about your posture or how you sound when you can become bliss-out like this ?
In all likeliness, you won’t realize that you have reached a gooned state. You will become aware of that fact later, as you emerge, relaxed, happy and splattered with cum.